Sunday, June 26, 2011

There's no other name like Jesus

Man of sorrows
What a name
For the Son of God who came
Ruined sinners to reclaim
Hallelujah! What a Savior

Bearing shame and scoffing rude
In my place condemned he stood
Sealed my pardon with his blood
Hallelujah! What a Savior

Guilty, vile and helpless we
Spotless Lamb of God was he
Full atonement, can it be
Hallelujah! What a Savior

Lifted up was he to die
It is finished, was his cry
Now in Heaven exalted high
Hallelujah! What a Savior

When he comes, our glorious King
All his ransomed home to bring
Then anew his song we'll sing
Hallelujah, what a Savior!

Saturday, June 18, 2011

A letter to the girl without a father

I couldn't have written these words more beautifully or described as accurately what it feels like to live without a father (or with an absent father who chose to leave). Lauren, writing over at A Deeper Story, took my breath away and the words right out of my mouth when telling her personal story about an imperfect father-daughter relationship that led her to her heavenly, eternal, and perfect Father for a relationship that meets all of her needs and more. I hope you read it. If anything, it gives you a glimpse into my experience and heart wounds. It paints a picture of the relationship I have with my father and my Father today.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

The Gospel and Marriage



Currently at Brook Hills, David is leading a series on The Gospel and the Next Generation. For the first couple of weeks we learned about Biblical manhood and womanhood as well as the importance of passing the gospel on to our children and the next generation. If you click on the link you can watch or read those sermons. They were great! Last Sunday we learned about how the gospel relates to (or is in fact central to) marriage. I just wanted to share a few notes from Dr. Bart Box's sermon on biblical marriage with you.


In Ephesians 5:22-33, Paul discusses the mystery of the gospel that's seen in a marriage relationship. He says that God's purpose for marriage isn't just for us to have an earthly companion (as wonderful of an aspect as that is), but the intent is for us to display the relationship between Christ and the church (his followers/ the body of believers/ God's children).


The mystery of the gospel in marriage is ultimate. It's the main purpose for our being together (to advance the gospel and bring glory to God). And it's the main thing we need in order to have a loving, lasting, biblical marriage. We want our Savior to be exalted and others to come to know him by witnessing our gospel-centered relationship.


The wife portrays the church to the world. The mark of the gospel among wives is glad submission.


The husband portrays Christ to the world. The mark of the gospel among husbands is sacrificial love.


In order for wives to be an example of the church that shows glad submission to Christ, they must submit willingly to their husbands, they must show reverence to their husbands, and their submission must be comprehensive. If our submission is to reflect the church's relationship with Christ, then it cannot be based on our husband's worthiness of our respect. No matter how he is living- whether or not he's doing "his part"- we are to show respect and yield to him out of reverence for Christ.


Likewise, in order for husbands to be an example of Christ that sacrificially loves the church, they must love their wives unconditionally (not based on her worthiness of it or deserving of it), effectively (always leading her to the gospel and pointing her to her Savior), tenderly (as they would love themselves) and sacrificially (paying a high cost or price/ denying their self for her sake). "Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy."


Wives, we should not wait until our husband starts to be a better leader and loving spouse who is worthy of our respect and submission before we start showing it to him. Husbands, you should not wait until your wife starts respecting and following you before showing her love, patience, sacrifice and tenderness. 


I know this is a high, seemingly impossible calling, but it's the mystery of the gospel! Isn't it?! It's how God loves  us. He loved us so much while we were still in our transgressions (while we were his enemies still living in sin) that he sacrificed his Son for our sake. And Christ was so loving, selfless and submissive/obedient to his Father that he willingly sacrificed his life for our sake. It's the beauty of the gospel; the mystery of such a great love!


If we could love each other like this, then not only our children and the next generation but all other married couples and adults in this fallen, broken world would see the love of God that he has for his creation! 


And it is possible for us to do this! We have help from the Spirit of God living within us and we have God's grace which is our mercy when we fail and our strength when we are weak.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Happy 6 months, sweetheart!












May 13 marked our 6 month anniversary. Time is flying by! It doesn't feel like it's been half a year (almost 7 months) since we said "I do!" It's been just like our courtship, engagement, wedding day and honeymoon- A dream come true. I love you Patrick!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

A Perfect Mess

Reading Sarah Mae's post for today, "When failure is heavy like a downpour," reminded me of a book I read by Lisa Harper last year. Once you've taken a moment to read Sarah's post, come back and see how Lisa's message relates.



Unfortunately, often our faith doesn’t penetrate to our unfavorable feelings about ourselves.” – Marva Dawn

On those days when french fries and napkins litter the floor of your car, when you think bad words about other drivers, when your smile hides an anxious heart- in those moments when you fall short of all you’d hoped to be- what does God see when he looks at you? In your less-than-lovely moments, God sees a precious daughter (or son) in need of His perfect love.

You don’t have to worry about being good enough for God. He adores and transforms imperfect people. He is a loving Father who remains your greatest champion, even when you don’t feel anywhere near close to holy. What happens when we stop trying to hide our inadequacies and doubts from God and others? What happens when we trust God with our anger, frustrations, flaws and regrets? As you accept God’s loving invitation to exchange your mess for His best, you’ll find the imperfect pieces of your life shaped into a glorious pattern of divine grace. You’ll find joy in Him!

The psalms wonderfully solve the problem of a praise-deficient culture by providing the necessary words to praise God.” – Philip Yancey

The most valuable thing the Psalms do for me is to express the same delight in God that made David dance.” – C. S. Lewis

What does Psalm 1 reveal about us avoiding potholes in the path of life? It shows  that God’s love frees us to steer clear of the path of destruction and walk with Him in joyful obedience.

What does Psalm 62 say about wriggling out of the trap of wrong expectations? It teaches us that God’s love frees us from meaningless rules and religious propriety constructed by people. We can live authentically and abundantly by relying on Him instead of ourselves.

How does Psalm 139 describe the way God sees beauty behind our blemishes? It teaches us that God’s love frees us from performing so we can relax and rejoice with the assurance that He knows us completely and adores us just as we are.

A ‘yes’ to life means an honest recognition of our own evil, but it is also a ‘yes’ to God, who in the midst of our evil sustains us and draws us into his righteousness.” – Richard Foster

What does Psalm 51 reveal about deep cleaning in our dirty hearts? It shows us that God’s love frees us from the muck and mire of guilt so we can walk in the sweet fragrance of forgiveness.

What does Psalm 42 say about dealing with our ugly emotions? It says that God’s love frees us to grieve honestly while never losing sight of the supernatural hope we have in Him.

What does Psalm 8 say about God partnering with imperfect people like us? It says us that God’s love frees us from self-centeredness so we can take on worthwhile responsibilities that can be accomplished only through His strength and wisdom.

What does Psalm 34 reveal about being grateful for God’s ability to unsnarl the tangles in our lives? It shows us that God’s love frees us from our fears so that we can live with thankfulness, contentment and peace- even amid the roughest storms.

How does Psalm 23 illustrate that our Shepherd compels stubborn sheep to rest? It teaches us that God’s love frees us from frenzied lives and compels us to rest- even those of us who aren’t naturally inclined to recline.

How does Psalm 119 shed light on this supernatural love letter called the Bible?
It shows that God’s love frees us from stumbling around trying to navigate life on our own, giving us practical, lifesaving guidance and a clearer perspective on our circumstances through his Word.

What does Psalm 149 and 150 suggest about how rhythm-challenged people can master the smooth moves of praise? It says that God’s love frees us from worrying about our lack of rhythm and polish so we can dance with abandon in praise of His goodness.

Notice that all of these Psalms point us to God’s love and reveal its freeing power in our lives. God’s love liberates us from our strife! Our striving to be perfect for him and attaining approval from others. It frees us from the burdens we place on ourselves. Jesus said, "Come to me all you who are weary; you who labor and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28

The Lord’s chief desire is to reveal himself to you and, in order to do that, he gives you abundant grace.” –Madame Jeanne Guyon

Now to him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you as blameless before the presence of his glory with great joy, to the only God our Savior through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty and authority before all time, now and forever. Amen.” Jude 24-25

No one is more solidly in our corner than God himself. He lifts us up, dusts us off, and cheers us on in the ‘messy’ race of life.” – Max Lucado

A Perfect Mess will cause you to breathe a sigh of relief. Finally we are assured that we aren’t the only ones who need encouragement as we stare in disbelief at the chaos of our lives. Thank God for his reassuring presence (and cleansing grace).” – Priscilla Shirer

A Perfect Mess deftly applies the ancient truths found in Psalms to our very frazzled, contemporary lives.” – Liz Curtis Higgs

Lisa reminds us that although we may be messy, our heavenly Father has big arms and doesn’t mind getting dirty.” – Chonda Pierce

                                 *All notes credited to Lisa Harper, author of "A Perfect Mess"